Quote Originally Posted by kitten529
My bf really wants to try it. but even if he sticks a finger in.. i feel like I have to shit.
and that feeling doesnt go away after a few mins.
I wont let him try his cock because a)ow. and b) i dont want to feel that "i have to shit feeling" that badly..

does the feeling subside?
Hi Kitten,

Yes, the feeling subsides.
Great advice given above.
Success is based on your comfort and that's more than being clean. Positioning is also very important.

I've posted this elsewhere, but think it's worth a repost:

Regarding anal play, I recommend starting slowly, get clean with a nice enema, have him use lube on a finger, and gently "finger f*ck" your anus.

How does that feel?
Do you want him to continue?

If you are practicing on yourself, squat, lube your finger,
put your hand behind your back, reach between your legs and go for it.

When you first do this, it may feel like you need to have a bowel movement as your lower body is trying to push the foreign object out of the way. This can cause you to tighten up and make it painful. Take your time, breath deeply and focus on relaxing.

If you are using toys, start small, but make sure there is something on the end to keep that toy from dissappearing inside of you. Use something flexible that can bend with you, like manflesh would, not some hard plastic toy.

Here is a link to 10 rules of anal sex:

http://www.sexuality.org/authors/morin/analrule.html

Oh! and this site also has a list of recommended positions for Anal. Jackpot!

http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html

If something ends up working for you that you like,
let us know.

Have fun!

Ruby