Quote Originally Posted by Silke
Hmm, I really don't understand why tempers rose sky high with this. Just speaking for myself here ...but as long as there's no personal insult I can live happily with someone giving his take on things, be it absolute or not. After all it's my choice to accept this opinion, sit back an laugh about it in private and put an alternative approach up for discussion. Someone else's views are just that, however narrow minded I might find them...why not smile and be happy that you found something that works for yourself?

The only time I get defensive is when I find myself in a tight spot. Again, this is ME, ok? Just making twice sure I'll get this point across...

Oh, and btw...I *love* your online relationship with fantassy and sit back in awe as to the results the two of you are getting. Not dreaming of wanting to diminish that. Especially you so generously share your experiences.

Silke
yep I agree --but when someone starts calling me a clown and stating my opinions are stupid ---I tend to get defensive---and I know others do ---why ask opinions unless you really want them---why not just ask for those who agree with you ----that is the way I think----it is fine to ask for an opinion and when you get one opposed to your way of thinking ---it is fine to rebut it but to call someone else stupid or a clown ---is the beginning of a flame war---and it will not happen here---