Quote Originally Posted by fantassy
I don't think Brosco was really talking about a fantasy relationship, but about a mental relationship. I have a basic idea what he looks like and vice versa. I think we have been honest in what we say to each other. But the true attraction, at least for me, is to Brosco's brain. I really like the way he thinks - not just in d/s stuff but in general. In a way, online can, if you are both being honest, allow you to get to know one another better without all the physical crap getting in the way.
Anyway, that's my two cents.
fantassy,

You'll see above, that I've admitted to using Brosco's response in a manner that suited my perspective... (not apologizing for doing so mind you. It's one manner of pursuing a debate point.)

I agree 100% with what you've said here (highlighted red) but, again, I have to say, non-personal communications have, over our whole history, allowed us to get to know each other without meeting... but meeting is better.

Even if you don't believe you would connect on a long term basis... wouldn't you like to, just once, shake his hand, maybe give him a hug...

...and feel his breath on your earlobe as he whispered "cum for me."