rope bondage

[Ranai]

This thread has various rope bondage links: I’d like some shibari & suspension basics


As a bondage beginner I can recommend the BDSM Backroom Bondage Lesson
http://www.bcwsd.com/backroom/librar...us/bkurs01.htm

Since you mentioned metal here is a guide to steel bondage
http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/steelbon.html


Digressing a bit from the rope theme – hardware store bondage shopping: If you have wrist and ankle cuffs (comfortable ones of good quality that won’t cut into the flesh), a cuff’s D-ring can be attached to a rope or chain or wherever by using a safety springsnap or a panic hook. For clipping cuffs to something or together, a double-ended snap link / double ended trigger hook works well.

The advantage of these is that the bottom can get out of the bondage, albeit with some fumbling, if for some reason the top topples over. It eases my mind and makes it more fun for us both if we know that in an emergency he has a way out.