Thanks Tourguide, in my case you are absolutely correct.

Your last post is very informative and so very true. I see many girls go into the gorean chat rooms and leave worse off than when they 1st got there for the exact reasons you mentioned. That not to say that Gor rooms are the only ones to have a certain type of ppl to go in and do this. Gor rooms are the only ones I have actually witnessed it going on. So not slamming Gor for that reason.

It wasn't until I met my husband that I gained the voice to ask questions. Gor was a senario/role play that interested us both, but it was the communication between us that actually helped.

off topic I know but have to written anything on here Tourguide? Would be very interested in reading if you have. Will have to experiment with the search options [if any].