Quote Originally Posted by nikita
1. How old were you?
2. Who or what opened your eyes to BDSM?
3. Did you get to experience it at a club or party?
4. What was your physical and emotional reactions when you saw your first
scene?
5. Are there any people on this forum that are vanilla and participating or lurking to find out if they should take the plunge?

Nikita
1. mid 20's
2. The first thing that happened to me that really flipped my switch, my boyfriend accidentally pinned me down one day while we were fooling around. We did a lot of experimenting together, and I wouldn't even say I knew what to call it then. Didn't take me long to figure it out though.
3. I belong to a club and go probably 2-3 times a month.
4. I was completely enthralled. I still love to watch, and moreso to listen.
5. I don't know, but I guarantee you I'm not one of them. I've gone from moderately shy but inquisitive to regular, playing member of a bdsm club and the resident expert at the toy store. We get customers in asking about BDSM and my manager's reaction is "Hey crafty, I have a customer for you" (I'm so proud!)