Quote Originally Posted by Katmandu
Here's another question: Does anyone out there have hemmorrhoids? Does using a but plug not aggravate it/them?
Just noticed this question and that nobody seems to have answered it.

A ladyfriend of mine a few years ago (Cheryl) loved to be plugged but had almost given up because of H. In the process of getting Cheryl to agree to let me fuck her up the shitter, after one drunken session that made her hole sting way too much for her the next day - too much to agree to a further session soon enough for me - I decided to provide some anal training with a couple of plugs and a medium-sized silicone dildo I bought for her.

I used a lube on these tools that contains a benzocaine topical anaesthetic, which "calmed" the pain a lot, and helped her get used to a "fulfilling feeling". For longer period spent plugged, she did need further coats of lube and re-insertions, but this usefully prepared her for the sensation of being (at first, slowly) fucked.

This helped her a great deal in learning to let my erection into her anus. It was a more difficult process for Cheryl than for most other ladyfriends, so she benefited a lot from this training. If your lady has similar H problems and you want her to learn how to open her less fortunate fuckhole to your cock, I'd recommend such a lubricant.

If you cannot find it in your area, try this method: mix KY jelly with antiseptic anaesthetic throat spray, sold in the UK as "Chloraseptic". It is green! It contains enough benzocaine to dull the pain of moderately painful H.

A note of caution: You may want to use a condom to prevent the benzocaine from dulling the sensation in your cock, otherwise it will take much longer to come (I found this out by making the mistake!). Otherwise you will be buttfucking your lady for so long that all the gain will become pain for her again.

If you or your lucky ladyfriend hate condoms, coat your erection with more than the usual amount of unaldulterated KY to delay the "mixing" and get you closer to filling her anus with your semen before it starts taking away the sensation. Or finish in her mouth if you feel the pleasure being dulled - her saliva will quickly wash off the mixture along with the usual substances.


Cheryl did not seem to develop any problems from my attentions, it did not make the H problem worse and she did not seem to enjoy being anally filled any less than other ladyfriends of mine. When we parted ways, we remained platonic friends, and she tells me that latter partners of hers greatly appreciated her willingness to let them use her anus. She is still using the larger plug and she tells me that it still helps, after several years.