A New Slave

[redEva]

Welcome Kira, it is nice you have found this place and joined us.
From your short introduction I will assume that in Real Life, you truly are physically with your Master.

We all have different needs and experiences. We all, as well have different kinks and pain tolerance levels. I find it curious that you endured nipple clamps for (what it seems from your description) over 24 hours. What kind of clamps are those?

Dear Kira, please take this for what it is - a well intended advice: no matter what position in Ds relationship one holds, knowledge can only enhance your experience. Read, read and learn (and not only fantasy - read up on safety, how-to etc.) about the BDSM, about the techniques and what are recommended and tried things and guidelines for “play”. One can live this and live it to the fullest making it the most fulfilling life journey, or one can go into it blindly and hope all works out well. I personally would recommend the first, safe and sane path - some things are better left to fantasy.

May you enjoy all your Master wishes you to endure!

[slave_lisa]

I still have the nipple clamps, still use them. They are deffenatly alot of fun and if I remember the name right there just 'Alligator Clamps'. Definatly not as fancy as some of the ones I've seen out there, but they suit their purpose, and isn't that all what we want?
Hehe, I'm a bit philosophical.
Other then that, yes, I am with my master. I have asked him to join this forum as well, although I doubt it as he does not much care for forums or chats servers of the like.

[BDSM_Tourguide]

I, too, would like to offer some advice and an opinion.

I would question the judgement of anyone that asked me to purposefully undermine my own safety in such a fashion. Nipple clamps, especially the alligator types, cause blood flow to become restricted in the nipples. Extended blood flow loss in any tissue in your body can lead to tissue necrosis (Meaning your nipples could literally rot off), and to a variety of infections, not the least of which is gangrene. I know a lot of people enjoy edge play and like to please their masters, but I have yet to meet anyone who has had the desire to have their breasts amputated in order to prove what a devoted and obedient submissive they are.

Safety first! Consider what it is you are doing to your body before you agree to such things. Be aware of the risks you are taking before you take them. I would certainly recommend that you and your master read up on some techniques before undergoing any furter "play" of that magnitude.

Thanks for reading. Play safely.

[her_Joe]

I again am one who means my comments kindly and supportively. There is a mantra in the community, one that is drilled in:SSC -- Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Safe is sometimes not so clear when you're new ..l. that's where the research comes in. Sane also depends on reading and asking.

Is it safe to assume your Master is also fairly new to BDSM play? If so, whether he likes forums or not, perhaps you should do the research and provide reading for him. If not ..... I am concerned. I'm new to this, too, and as a Dom I haunt this site and several others to gain as much information as I can handle. My sub enjoys our play and enjoys tests of her endurance and devotion as much as I do .... what a shame if I were to injure her out of my own ignorance.

Best wishes. her_Joe

[slave_lisa]

I thank you for all your insight. I will definatly pass it on to my master. And as a side note, my nipples ended out fine, sore for about a week, but no perminant harm. I guess, I didn't know how lucky I was.

Thank you again.

(Least my reason to join the forum is working, to get info )