Lube .. er .. while it may not be the 'correct' way of doing these things and I am NOT suggesting this should be done by anyone starting out down this road ...

lucy and I do not use any lube at all, not for a plug nor when I fuck her. Her submissive feelings dictate that she would rather accept whatever I give her without anything to ease her pain, although if she ever felt she might suffer serious injury then obviously her safeword would be used.

Having said that and read the previous posts, as the anus will take a lot of 'molesting', is the use of lube possibly more psychological than a physical necessity, or is lucy just the exception that proves the rule.

To have her wear her plug overnight will definitely be part of her tasks in the near future, although whether I will be able to resist taking it out, using her and then replacing it, is another matter.