Quote Originally Posted by csr

Maybe your sub was wrestling with submission too... I often will sheild myself if I can--not because I want to, but as a natural reaction. Last night I broke two chains that I thought normally were strong enough to hold me, I was struggling so hard. Of course I was punished more for it (gee, darn).

We have talked about your post and yes, he was struggling. To be blunt, he doesn't like spankings, bottom whippings, and hates the riding crop on his butt. I was testing him and he was feeling it. As my sub, he took the attention to his bottom because I enjoy it. T'is true! This was done with intermittent attention to his back, floggers, whips and scratching...which he particularly enjoyed.

As for your breaking chains? I believe that was his head space. When I was subbing, I wasn't one to struggle. Rather, I was very docile in how I coped with and enjoyed what was happening.

So, it seems that those who are not part of the Ovarian Society do tend to react differently, more aggressively than their counterparts. Where a woman may cry, a man may growl, become aggressive?

His POV was that our play was wonderful, took him farther than he thought he could go and that he truly submitted. In fact, I am the only one in this partnership who is still thinking about those few moments.

I did tell him that I learned that he will be fully restrained next time ! *smirks* This met with mild protests and a bit of a twitch between his legs!