Whilst agreeing with angel that all relationships need and deserve us to work at them, there is wisdom in knowing when it is time to admit that much as you would love it work, either the chemistry or the mechanics or it are just not right, and it is time to make a dignified exit.

In my opinion, you have only been with this guy 6 weeks, and your posts show that you have already had a number of significant issues which are way beyond the normal teething problems of a relationship. You may want it both to work, but be honest with yourself, is this something which is going to stand the test of time? If not, then I would start packing before you hurt each other more.

cariad