I believe that people should work things out too. That's why I found the movers etc...but I can't bring myself to call them. I just want him home, safe, and to open up and talk to me. Instead, he just keeps up the barriers and his ego drives him away. He wants to lose the weight, but he does the opposite (but so do many people struggling with weight issues). Problem is, I do really love him and want this to work out - but I know that I can't fix what isn't mine to fix. As we got to know each other more, we connected so well and now I just don't understand why it's all going to he11.
He used to say "don't let me do something stupid when I think about leaving or acting like a j-ass"...and I tried to explain that I can't be responsible for that, but still I do try to talk with him and remind him of our love and he usually comes around. He says that he never wants me to leave him.......