*sighs* Well...I have been always under the belief if you truly want your relationship to work with your Dom you will do what it takes to work it out. Personally speaking I love my Master dearly and that bond is so strong that we overcome things slowly in time.

I know you haven't been with your Dom for long, but perhaps you can make it a task. For a relationship to truly work you both have to give and take. He knows his weight loss will assist his solution to his problem, why doensn't he do something about it? If he won't do that or at least attempt to better himself, then he isn't worth it. As you said...he bailed on you, he is trying to escape from his issues, running doesn't help, and you don't need someone like that. He needs to take responsibility for himself and his body, he knows the problem he has to fix it. If he isn't willing to save the relationship by losing weight or at least taking herbal remedies, and instead run home to his mother in weakness, he isn't worth it at all.

I am sure you can do a lot better. You don't have the problem love, he does.