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My advice? Change the locks and call the movers yourself. I went back and reread your posts and think that you found a guy whose self image is so poor that he was hoping to redeem it through controlling you. You allowed this and fed him for a while, but when he was unable to keep up his end of things he bailed. A D/s relationship is not easier than a vanille relationship, it is harder. the Dom has to work harder and make judgements based on what his sub feels and wants. Take some time and look around for a new Dom.