Master5414, i have to say i think some of your message comes across a little harshly, perhaps it's a language thing, but i for one would appreciate it if you could refrain from using phrases like 'pathetically' in reference to someone's post, it's offensive and rude.

Now, in terms of your post...

Quote Originally Posted by Master514
That's not what I meant when I recommended him to read more. I didn't encourage him to read more about playing techniques (I could have given him plenty of examples myself) but rather about the very basis of BDSM in order to decide what he really wants. Right now, he doesn't seem like he does.
Don't take this the wrong way, but your advice isn't the only advice in the whole BDSM world you know! You didn't advise playing techniques (and nor did i, not exclusively anyway), so what? i agree that hurt me (the person who you refer to as 'he') would benefit from plenty of reading.

He pathetically said: "but I want to have some stuff to do whenever I want." I see that as being highly incompatible and conflictual with the fact that he'll be looking for a master. Don't you? Embarking on the track of "to do whenever I want" is quite un-BDSM-ish for a sumbissive. Does anyone need explanations
Um..who on earth are you talking to?!?! (asking your questions of). Both myself and wannabeXopsed already raised the issue of 'doing tasks whenever one wants', it isn't new information and no one's disagreeing with you.


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