Quote Originally Posted by sugeneg
I have also found that giving her a lot of simple tasks throughout the day, many things she may already have done herself, are an excellent way of keeping her duty in mind.
My sub is finding writing her journal an excellent time for focus on me (she kneels at the foot of her bed with the laptop on the bed). I also find that actually choosing a sub's outfit for the day is an excellent, and very easy, way to have them reminded of you all day. My sub seems to be craving the structure such things bring and as I said before I find that it is the simple little things that are the most powerful.
Jason
Thanks for sharing these ideas/tasks. I haven't been able to do the amount of control in daily activities with a submissive's on-line training, mostly due to the fact that my current submissive and others in the past, have fairly full and complex lives other than their BDSM interests. But some of the simple things you have mentioned are good ideas to try. I find that my current submissive trainee craves more and more control by ME. So these small ways are good things to try.

Have you done or thought about body modification? Keeping her pubic hair shaved or trimmed a certain way? Nipple jewelry? Restrictive clothing like corsetts? Piercings? Tattoos? Asking her to change her hairstyle? (I have done this in the past, and it is really a powerful way to exert control. I found my submissive had been thinking about changing her hair style for a long time but had kept putting it off. When I told her how she was going to have it cut and styled, to fit my specifications, it was a dream come true for her.)

Also, using butt plugs during the day; a regimen of masturbation, with orgasm denial the aim, vibrators to increases sensitivity of nipples, clit, etc.
I like a submissive to write out fantasies for me. And I read and extend them.I have also sent her pictures of submissive or bondage positions and specific BDSM stories.
Just some thoughts off the top of my head.
Thanks for continuing to share.


Sir W