Quote Originally Posted by myri_SN

the other day someone told me if i am a slave i would let SN do anything to me he wanted and what if he wanted to harm me. so i said, i know that he wouldn't harm me. the reply i got was: if i think that then i am not a slave as if i was i would have to fear all the time that he might. but why should i? i know that he won't as there wouldn't be a relationship if i couldn't trust him or he wouldn't care for me . seemed to me that that person spent too much time reading gor. also first thing he said was that he pitied me as i was a victim of a dominant male who uses bdsm as an excuse to overpower women
So, let me see if I've got this clear. If you couldn't trust your Master and lived in fear that he might harm you, you would be in a healthy D/s relationship. But because you trust him and know he cares for you, you're the victim of an exploiter.

You think you're confused? What about this guy? Never mind reading too much Gor, I think he's been smoking too much of something.