Safety - whose responsibility?

[Tasker]

*Flashes Learners Permit before climbing up onto the soapbox*

At this point in time I assume total responsibility for safety as we explore. This will continue to be my view for the foreseeable future.

My reasoning for this is as follows:

1. If it was my bright idea to start with, then the responsibility for childbrides safety is totally mine.

2. I am in control of the situation and make damned sure I stay that way. This doesn't make it less enjoyable for me by staying focused. If anything it enhances things for me by being fully aware of her reactions.

3. After being married for nineteen years I truly feel I have a good read on subtle body language signals and have found these can be read even while she is bound.

Having stated the above I must also mention that I have deliberately pushed her to the point of using her safe word to ensure she would use it. This came about after finding out from her in discussion that she felt she would be letting me down if she did safe out. After plenty of reassurance she got the point that her safety was paramount, but I still needed to be sure.

Whether things will change in the future is unknown, but to me the primary responsibility will always be mine.

And finaly.....I hope what I wrote made sense


*Falls off soapbox* ok who moved the step?