Originally posted by bbeale7
But you forget the partner has the "hand"(the power)
and becouse of that if your not carful you will find your self using your hand.

Not at all. Like I said, I won't tolerate having things withheld from me as a form of punishment. I am the punisher, not the punishee. People that form relationships with me should know that up front.

Especially in the sex area. If you're not going to give it to me, I can and will find someone that will. I don't need a particular person for sex. Especially not someone that's going to try to be manipulative and conniving like that. I will find someone that wants to have sex with me. Someone that will most likely enjoy it.

Try having a little backbone with women. I'm not sure if you're involved at all with BDSM, but it seems to me you just need to start using a firmer hand and to have a tougher resolve. You might be pleased to see what happens.