Should a submissve know or not know???

[pejanon]

As it has been pointed out - submission is in a good part about giving over the control. So when I submit I don't really want to know - except in some general sense. On the other hand if it is something I realy dread - knowing *that* will happen is even worse (or better, heh heh).


As to punishments - it depends of course on the type of punishment, circumstances, mood, etc.

Sometimes the punishment is predefined, known and executed at once. Serious punishments often include sentence "It over when *I* say it is over."

A subbie can TRY to bargain her way out of it .......