Quote Originally Posted by slavelucy
For instance, i might be..um *pauses*...on orgasm deprivation; horny, pitiful and he'll only have to say "oh, you poor sweet slut" - and it's unbelievably horny.
Quote Originally Posted by andibabe
the way that someone says something is so very important, because that's usuallly how we perceive their mood, through voice. A voice can do a lot to you personally, depending on your mood and the uhm...situation you're in.
Mood, slow buildup without sudden changes, tone of voice, tempo, touch, trust; when you're communicating on so many different levels the words don't hurt (and may give some extra kick ).

If I were to stroke you gently, whispering things like "Sweet little slut, relax and enjoy" in your ear, so close you could feel warm breathing on your cheek you would likely not react to the word "slut" very much. Slowly make the stroking faster and stronger, adding stuff like "Is my sweet little cunt dripping for me?" with some light kisses mixed in, and you simply go with the flow, whispering "yes" to every question. Just slowly moving the rubbing and stroking to pussy lips, inside, over the clit while making the words stronger, like "How can I let a bitch like this out? Do you run like a faucet at work too?". The tone of voice never changes, gentle, loving; neither does the answer change; "Yes.. yess.."