Could i just add (aka - i'm gonna add!) that i think that equally important is how you say something...the reason i say this is because when i think of some of the things my dominant says to me, it is usually about the way he says them, as much as what he says. For instance, i might be..um *pauses*...on orgasm deprivation; horny, pitiful and he'll only have to say "oh, you poor sweet slut" - and it's unbelievably horny. i have to say this is even true in the written word, once you know someone well.

*blushing madly*

Anyway, um, that's it!

sl