The experience one is a total paradox isn't it, you can't get it without having to do something for the first time. A surgeon has to do his first operation on someone, as long as they knew the theory, had seen plenty before and were under adequate supervision I wouldn't mind though. I guess the same should have to apply to a novice Dom. I wouldn't be unhappy being there while a responsible, respectful, sincere, imaginative, self-controlled Dom, who had spoken to other Doms at length, cut his teeth. I think it would be rather exciting seeing the look of satisfaction on his face as he is faced for the first time with a kneeling slave totally submitting herself.

I therefore think attitude is more important than experience. It's an ideological viewpoint I know but everyone has to start somewhere. The characteristics I mentioned above are, for me, what I would like my Dom to have.