Quote Originally Posted by fuktoimaso View Post
I can't recall anyone ever telling me "this is how it works, this is how you should live a submissive life." I would probably laugh to myself if they did. But I am interested in knowing how other submissives do what is best for them. How do you fit it into your life?
You are very lucky then. The lifestyle is full of people who are ready, willing and oh-so-able to tell you that if you do not do X. Y, and Z ( in that order, and the exact same way they do it) then you are not a "true submissive".

i identify myself as a 24/7 collared property. i cannot count the times, both online and in real life, i have been told that i am not "truly a slave" because i have a job, my own car, the house is in my name, etc.

Just like in any other kind of LTR, we can make the dynamic that keeps everyone happy.

And remember: Labels are for packages. Pigeonholes are for pigeons.