You know, it's kind of funny. I like spanking but only with certain things. I love it with the hand but the paddle.... I don't know. I guess I see the paddle as a disiplinary tool and don't like the 'mental' feel of it. Just about anything else, I am good with.

As for caning, I have never had the opportunity to have one used on me. Frankly, they scare the hell out of me. The thought of them that is. I have heard horror stories about caning and some damage that can be caused if it isn't used properly. I don't know if that is a myth or if the thoughts are warranted.

On the other hand, give me a crop, a leather flogger, or a coiled rope (used as a flogger) and I am a happy camper