Butt plugs

[salpecam]

Thanks again for info and … encouragement!

Always glad to help!

[salpecam]

I wonder is you are aware of my favourite erotic discussion forum, the one originally created for discussions pertaining to Sodom Tales at asstr ?

Come along and try it. You might like it.

http://www.freeadultboards.com/index...rum=sodomtales

[redEva]

Thank you for invite, checked it out it is nice place, interesting posts and links too. Oh btw - if you manage to run into "dirtyslut" guy - do reassure him i am 39 (i do not hide my age or lie about it)! he seemed under impression that i am not *wondering how old does he think i am lol*

thanks again for nice links!

[clare_hastings2005]

Please forgive me butting ( no pun ) in but electroglide and such 'oils' are much better than either KY or vaseline , vaseline is rather sticky and KY can be absorbed and dry out , also plug type - glass are excellent for long term use as are to some degree metal - surgical steel - plastic/rubber plugs are ok for short term use ,upto maybe 2 days maximum . As a long time user of plugs ( i now wear one permenantly and have for almost a year now ) i have found the need for any lubrication redundant as my anal cavity and ring seem to be a perfect fit for my anal plug carefull removal and insertion is all that is required for those breaks for enamas and rare use of toilet and cleaning .Again please forgive me for interupting you A/all

[redEva]

Please forgive me butting ...

Oh but dear clare_hastings2005, how perfectly delicious of you to have decided to butt in! Welcome dear, nice to have you on here, and thank you for your post! This is what we need, cause the fantasy is nice, but not always doable!

Yes I was looking for the glass as I figured that would be the smoothest thing and easiest for cleaning etc. I have found numerous beautiful metal ones, but(t) I am allergic to anything but gold and thus not eager to spit out $100 + for something that I will not be able to tolerate!

If I got you right - you are on the enemas now constantly? How does that work with your daily routine? Is this something you are doing as a part of the relationship? How do you feel about it?

Welcome again, and let me assure you that we are more than happy to have you, and your input here!

[salpecam]

...electroglide and such 'oils' are much better than either KY or vaseline , vaseline is rather sticky and KY can be absorbed and dry out , also plug type - glass are excellent for long term use as are to some degree metal - surgical steel - plastic/rubber plugs are ok for short term use ,upto maybe 2 days maximum

Now that is useful advice. I have never had a ladyfriend use a plug continuously for more than about 3 days. I have found that silicone ones with KY work OK; but I had not yet moved onto really long-term use.

As a long time user of plugs ( i now wear one permenantly and have for almost a year now )

This is the sort of hard-won experience that I was hoping to hear about. "Butt" in all you want!

I have found the need for any lubrication redundant as my anal cavity and ring seem to be a perfect fit for my anal plug carefull removal and insertion is all that is required for ... enamas and rare use of toilet and cleaning.

What brought you to wear the plug all the time? Do you do it at the request/command of your partner? If not, please do tell your reasons.

[clare_hastings2005]

Sadly some people can have reactions to metal and indeed the plastic/rubber plugs also ( much more common ) ,the advantage to metal plugs are the added weight inside the subs anus sometimes requiring constant effort on subs part to hold said plug inside . also while out in public is excellent method of punishment /control with no undies if she looses concentration on holding plug it can slip out and fall in a crowd - how mortifiing , i only needd this to happen once to learn always hold my plug - this exercise will also allow subs anal ring to have better muscle grip for added pleasure of male Masters.

The enama routine was part of a former relationship as was permenant plug use , however realtionship finished 11 months ago . Daily rountine has been worked so that first thing in morning before work i take a simple cleansing and flushing enama , weekends a more thourough cleaning - 2 or 3 proper cleaning enamas followed by clean water flushings till only clean water is expelled . Also on weekend not such simple douch nozzle is used for enamas but proper colon enama which delivers fluid deeper into me providing a more complete cleaning .It is simply something i was made to do after time ,well it i just part of me now Ms Red

[Blue_Monday]

Thanks for all the information! My two cents on lubes...

Slippery Stuff is awesome. It's water-based, but thicker and heavier than something like KY. Also, it has absolutely NO taste (probably not an issue with anal, as some have mentioned). Someone in a shop told me that unlike many sweet-tasting lubes, it contains no sugar, which is good because sugar can encourage yeast in the nether regions. Unlike an oil-based lube, it does eventually dry up, but I find that it gets a lot less sticky than KY or Astroglide.

As for soothing irritation (or a fun sensation)--I once had a little backside rash that I treated with Gold Bond cream. It was like ice on my butt! It soothed the itch and would, I imagine, help pain. I don't know how good it would feel inside the anus, but it would be worth a try. I also use Orabase (a topical analgesic) fairly frequently for canker sores, and I think that would be safe and effective on the butt.

Personally, I would caution against using numbing creams for getting someone used to anal play. I'm a small girl, and with normal lube and a safe, comfortable setting, I've never had any problems with anal--a normal butt should be able to accommodate a normal penis when it's relaxed. Admit it; everyone poops something that large at one time or another. I think using a numbing agent could actually do more harm than good, because if there is damage being done, the numbee won't notice it until it's too late.

[salpecam]

...a normal butt should be able to accomadate a normal penis when it's relaxed. Admit it; everyone poops something that large at one time or another. I think using a numbing agent could actually do more harm than good, because if there is damage being done, the numbee won't notice it until it's too late.

For "normal", yes. But what to do when you are trying to train a lady with 'roids to take you into her anus? They hurt like hell, even when not being damaged. That's where topical anaesthetics win through.

[Blue_Monday]

For "normal", yes. But what to do when you are trying to train a lady with 'roids to take you into her anus? They hurt like hell, even when not being damaged. That's where topical anaesthetics win through.

Good point--I've never had both ('roids and anal penetration) at the same time, but I can see there why a topical would be necessary.

[~Lily~]

I've had 'roids and still managed full anal penetration. You just need to be more careful and slow, take time with it, start with one finger and lots of lube and work up. The anus still stretches and accomodates it can just be a little more painful afterwards, however on a personal note I like that, it proves I have been used and keeps a welcome reminder. I do use a good cream afterwards to help a little witht the soreness.

[Phantome]

Hey, I have a question for the folks who like to wear butt plugs long-term or out in public. How do you avoid chaffing? I would like to wear my plug to work and class, but the flared base just gets so damn uncomfortable between my cheeks. I've tried using powder, lube, and combinations therein. I just can't seem to get around having my cheeks chaffed by the flared base. Any tips from the pros?

Another question: does anyone have any reccomendations for a good vibrating inflatable plug? I've seen a few, but none of the sites tell how big it expands to, and there seems to be a pretty large price discrepancy. Any recs would be appreciated.

-Phantome, who is enjoying being a member of the forum!

[daddiebear50]

Those who are playing anally with hemmoroids, please use caution. The tissue is already irritated, and more easily damage or subject to small tears. This exposes the open blood stream to fecal matter, and what is called a systemic infection. Not a good thing, and e-coli infections can be resistant to most antibiotics.

For those with the problem, there is a simple help, that can greatly reduce the size and irritation. After normal post BM cleaning, put some hand lotion on some tissue, and reclean the rectal area. You'll be surprised at what you left behind. Also the lotion conditions the area, just like it does for chapped hands. The additional cleaning decreases the chaffing, that helps irritate the hemmoroids. Yes even the internal ones, though using something like a yeast infection cream injector filled with hand lotion, and inserted can additionally help those too. Just let it overflow before insertion for lubrication.

As far as lube, there are vaginal lube suppositories, and non or lightly medicated Hemmoroid supp (like cocoa butter ones) that can be inserted to lubricate the inner area more thoughly. They just take a little forethought, so they can dissolve. 15-30 minutes at least.

As to cleaning toys, don't overlook the dishwater, if you have one. The repeated hot water, and heat of drying help to 'sterilize' the toys. Latex won't melt in the top shelf, and neither should rubber, in think. Glass, and metal ones obviously should be ok too. If they can 'sterilize' the food bacteria that grows between my once a week cycles, they can do a pretty good job on toys. ie green beans are known for a nasty bacteria when they are cooked poorly, or allowed to sit too long, and I'm still here.

As to inflatables, the same applies, stretching the tissue, can let blood leak out between the cells, and therefore, let bacteria in. Go slowly, over many sessions, to let the tissue build up it's forces so to speak. Remember, any blood form the rectum is a serious concern. It means that there is a two way street.

Hope this helps some of you.

[Jim]

Hello ... I am fasinated by the thought of the use of these plugs on my sub..
I have never used one on her .. i am interested to know how
to introduce a sub to these devices and which type / size you would recommend
also // interested in knowing how to develop this to a full day session ..
thank you in advance ..

[salpecam]

...how to introduce a sub to these devices and which type / size you would recommend also interested in knowing how to develop this to a full day session ...

Buy a set of graded sizes from tiny to fairly big, but don't buy one that is more than two inches diameter at first. Lube the "head" of the smallest one well using KY jelly or similar water-based lube; if you buy a silicone plug, don't use silicone lube. Rubber/latex plugs are OK with silicone lube. Put the plug in her anus gently, but make sure it is right in up to the base flange or it will pop out as she moves about. At first, keep it in her until she doesn't want it in anymore, or until you need to remove it for a toilet visit or to fuck her anus.

Try to extend the inserted duration a little bit every time you use the plug. Once she's happy with this regime, go up a size. More getting used to it, extending the wearing period... then up a size again, etc.

In my experience, the breakthrough will be when she can sleep a full night with it in. From there it is a short step to keeping it in for days, removing it (only temporarily) to fuck her anus or clean it while she uses the toilet, you apply an enema, etc.

You will have to develop your own plan for how frequently you re-apply the lube. Some wearers find that a minimum of lube is good for keeping it in while walking, etc, during the daytime, to stop it from slipping out too easily. Others find that lots of lube is necessary for long-term wear to avoid chafing. This is where experimentation with lubes will help, as the ones that are good for easy insertion or anal sex are not necessarily best for long-term wearing. Acrylic, Pyrex or metal plugs, while utterly rigid, allow freedom to use any lube you want, including oil-based ones if she prefers.

[charlestudor]

i have the need to find a plug that is a common household instrument so that it will not be seen by the vanilla world as a plug. does anyone have any suggestions? thanks

ct

[TheThinMan]

i have the need to find a plug that is a common household instrument so that it will not be seen by the vanilla world as a plug. does anyone have any suggestions? thanks

ct

The only advice I have is don't. A proper plug requires a collar so as to not be unforunately lost and absolutely no rough edges. I can't think of an everyday object that would reliably fulfill both qualifications. I suggest investing in a discrete locking box for the actual thing rather than searching for a poor substitute.

[salpecam]

If it's in the intended anus often enough, it won't get left lying around... Safest place to keep it is where it was designed to go.

[Ocean_Soul]

If it's in the intended anus often enough, it won't get left lying around... Safest place to keep it is where it was designed to go.

I like the way you think!

[Ranai]

i have the need to find a plug that is a common household instrument so that it will not be seen by the vanilla world as a plug. does anyone have any suggestions? thanks

ct

This is not a common household instrument, but it does not look like an ordinary butt plug either; more like a toy than like a sextoy. Maybe it would interest you?

Fun Factory makes a blue silicone butt plug shaped like a dolphin: Dolphin Stub ‘S’.

In the US you can get it here for example:
http://www.eroticrites.com/catalog/p...oducts_id/1653

[charlestudor]

Thanks Ranai, i appreciate it & llok forward to the pleasure

This is not a common household instrument, but it does not look like an ordinary butt plug either; more like a toy than like a sextoy. Maybe it would interest you?

Fun Factory makes a blue silicone butt plug shaped like a dolphin: Dolphin Stub ‘S’.

In the US you can get it here for example:
http://www.eroticrites.com/catalog/p...oducts_id/1653

[Ranai]

Enjoy. May you soon be smiling like a certain dolphin.