Need help with proper begging etiquette...

[Lilly My Sweet]

In my quest to be the perfect sub, I need to improve my begging. I fear I may very well stink at it . I got 'please', 'may I' and 'if i may' in my begging vocabulary aaaaaaand that's all. What other key words and phrases can I use in a begging fashion to arouse master and not sound too repetitive? Master by the way looooooves begging. Please help! :help:

Thanks!

[Sir Lanceloth]

well try using "this one" instead of I, some like that

also if you both like "the romantic era" try using historical phrases such as: Master, may i indulge an request of you?

The way your bodylanguage works in begging is also important to some. Try kneeling while begging, putting your hands together etc.

im not wery good at english, if i remember more begging words ill put em here.

[BDSM_Tourguide]

In my quest to be the perfect sub, I need to improve my begging.

In your quest to be the perfect submissive, remember that the ego required to consider oneself to be perfect may be counter-productive to submission.

Begging can take on a wide variety of flavors and shapes, and may not require words at all. The tilt of the head and the way the eyes are held can indicate desire, whether for a piece of food or for something more lurid.

'May I,' 'May I please,' and 'If I may' are all fine ways to beg, but for more added flavor, try throwing in some 'If it pleases you, master,' 'I would greatly desire...,' or 'It would give me such pleasure to...' This not only indicates your desire, but also the level of that desire. It makes the phrase, "May I please be allowed to suck your cock?" transform into "Master, it would give me great pleasure to be allowed to suck your cock." See the difference? Now, that's begging.

And no offense to Sir L, but please don't use phrases such as 'this one,' or 'this girl.' IMO, it does nothing but to detract from an otherwise pleasant scene or dialogue. Practice your body language and the way you ask first, then worry about the semantics. Who was it that said, "Be beautiful in your thoughts and you will be beautiful in your words?"

[His_pita]

I'm going to have to talk to my Dom about this begging thing. I don't know if I am suppose to be doing that!

I do like your examples BDSM Tourguide. They're much more erotic. I can see Him liking that.

I hate talking in the third person though. I will do it during a scene if that makes him happy but it made me feel silly doing it when I tried it in the beginning of our relationship.

[Sir Lanceloth]

thats it! do what you two feal is right

My "third person dialog" was only suggestions, some like it others dont, i see that you and TG agree on not liking third person dialogue

[solesta]

thats it! do what you two feal is right

My "third person dialog" was only suggestions, some like it others dont, i see that you and TG agree on not liking third person dialogue

Master Sir Lanceloth,

This gilr's Master like her to use the third person thing in chat rooms but not in r/l cause of her daughter. And also on threads she doesn't have to use it but it does come out from time to time. Giggles she has had it slip in r/l too.. that was a bit embarasing.

[Blue_Monday]

I'm going to have to talk to my Dom about this begging thing. I don't know if I am suppose to be doing that!

If all goes well, you'll be begging soon enough.

Sort of a nod to third-person, and a way to add a little spice to begging: try a third-person plea like, "Please let your slut ride you...god, I want to ride you!" or "Daddy, spank me... spank your slutty little girl!" (I guess some Doms might think that second one is too much of an order, not enough of a plea.) This way you degrade yourself a bit more without having to commit to full-time third-person tense. Plus, it's really dirty, and a lot of guys just love hearing the words come out of a pretty little mouth.

As for me, there's nothing I like better than a pleading nuzzle from my puppy-boy--a little push with his head to nudge my legs apart, and a murmured "please" or "thank you" is more than enough. *dreamy sigh*

[Lilly My Sweet]

Thank you guys so much for the responses and ideas! Also, because of certain PMs that I have received, I feel that I need to clarify that I don't really have a 'Master.' My so-called 'Master' is nothing more than a guy that I like who gave his heart to another. We are close friends and have talked enough for me to know the things that he is into and how he likes things done. Sigh, I am merely there it seems to listen to him talk about the love of his life as I dream on. So when I fanatasize about submitting to a lover, I think of him for I have no one else at this time. So my 'Master' is nothing more than a fantasy, just like the rest of my love life...pathetic, I know...sniff.

[Caitlin]

Lilly ~ It's sweet that you have so much love to give, and you are wanting to submit so much. It’s not pathetic to think of Him in terms of your submission. He evokes so many emotions in you. It must be so frustrating for you at times.

Your Master will come along, and you can serve Him in ways you have longed to serve a Master.

In the mean time ~ happy hunting, and happy fantasies

[Sir Lanceloth]

just like the rest of my love life...pathetic, I know...sniff.

love is never pathetic, even the sad love holds an beauty of its own. Just hang in there! what comes easy also disappear easily. Take the time to find the best man ever! but dont waste your time hunting either, as that may just bring you sorrow.

cheer up! look at all the other positive sides of your life and cultivate them, after all its such things that will attract the man for you

[Lilly My Sweet]

cheer up! look at all the other positive sides of your life and cultivate them, after all its such things that will attract the man for you

I'm a very cheerful person, swear! But perhaps just not in terms of love, hehe. It feels amazing to have my heart filled with so much feeling and life; love feeds and gives the heart its beat! Yet the melody of love is bittersweet when it floods from the heart only to fall to a deaf ear (but I don't obsess over it, much too busy for that, hehe). It feels wonderful to love my friend, even if it does hurt. It hurts to bridle the verbal and physical expression I crave to give him. But love encompasses all feelings, it soothes as easily as it burns. I'm happy to have love, even if its home is my lonely heart, truly...love makes us feel alive.

[Sir Lanceloth]

yes lilly, well said! i see i dont have to worry about you

Love love love love just the word makes me happy