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Hi,
I just entered into a NSA relationship with someone that is into D/s. She said she is a sub and wants me to learn how to be a dom. I am a curious cat and am interested in exploring this new area of sexuality.
I am looking for advice on what to do, how to act, and so on and so forth. PLease assist me in this new endeavor.
Cameron
Okay, I'll be stupid...what's "NSA"?
I'm pretty sure, NSA = No Strings Attached, jeanne.
Welcome to the BDSM community and the Library. There are more learning threads here than you'll even need. So my advice is to read, read, read.
as i first time dom myself i have found that the best way to get advice is to just read what other people are doing, get some ideas on how u think u might procceed in you own relationship, if u feel like u want to be in charge of this sub, then start by bein forceful with her, let her call u master and the rest will come naturally, my best advice to new people is to take things naturally, plan a safeword so u can fully explore both your limits without things becoming awkward, communication between doms and subs is important so talk to each other about what u each want and go from there,
best of luck with the lifestyle and enjoy =)